From the mind of critic: “If whatabout-ism is how we respond to being accused, are we responsible for anything? If we think total control is the only control, are we controlling anything? If we belive we’re never at fault, are we admitting to being pawns? We all know black and white flat out denials are usually an explicit plea of guilt, because we’re trying to prove to ourselves beyond a reasonable doubt that something is true or untrue, while knowing it’s the complete opposite. Getting over ourselves is how we evolve, the first step is admitting we’re not perfect. Being human, means being fallible. If blaming our accusers is our default solution, we’ll forever be stuck in a cycle of low self-esteem on the inside, and sad clown on the outside. If our true life is goal is joy and fulfillment, taking resposibility for our own actions is how we start.” 🙂