from the mind of critic-3/31/18

From the mind of critic: “If advice is truly meant to help us, because the giver truly want us to succeed, do we tune out the second we feel lectured at? Do the hurled assumptions at first glean respect, because we’ve known the person so long? Does it become projection, when the advice drones on and on, repeating itself repeatedly? If we’re accused of not trying to better our situation at all, when we know we are, do we begin to resent the advice giver? Friends exist on many differemt levels, stay in our lives for varying amounts of time and serve a plethora of purposes? When has our best interest at heart,we tend to respect and listen to their words. However, if their tone becomes condescending, because we’ve spent all our time doing this, when they say we should really be doing that over there, we begin thinking we’re wrong. Problems continue arising we have been doing that stuff, but our respected friends advice reveals itself for the emptiness it contains, because they want us to do what works for them, instead of what works for us. Once we realize that following our heart by listening to our soul is all that matters, we’ll see that if somebody really had our best interest at heart, they’d not only listen but hear us, instead of only their own words. Friends start growing apart when they feel judged, because true friends are friends, specifically because they dont feel judged. If making money is our only goal, we’ll never be happy. If we put off what we want to do until we’re filthy rich, we’ll forget what we wanted because we left our soul behind

 

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